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Body Care & Cooling Techniques

How to Care for the Body

HOW TO CARE FOR THE BODY

Care of the body engages our hearts, minds, bodies and spirits in a compassionate fashion and usually helps to facilitate healthy grief processes. There is no right or wrong way. The purpose of preparing the body is to prevent any sights and odors that the family/community might wish to avoid during the vigil, and as a symbolic gesture of loving, hands-on care that is usually the last physical contact the family has with the deceased.
 
The idea of providing body care may be uncomfortable for many people. Because we have become so culturally alienated from caring for our dead, this is understandable. Those who do elect to participate in body care often see their fears disappear. Rather than the mysterious and technically challenging undertaking it is made out to be, body care, like many aspects of home-based post-death care, is a simple, practical task that might be compared to caring for an infant or bed bound patient.

Body Care

EYES
If the eyes remain open after death and you wish that they be closed, gently bring lids down over eyes and place small bags of rice or sand (or other substance that can provide a little weight) over the eyes and keep in place until lids remain closed. This usually takes a couple hours.
 
MOUTH
If the mouth is open and you wish it to be closed, use a necktie or long thin piece of non-slippery material (an ace bandage works well), bring it under the jaw and tie a knot on top of the head. A second person is necessary in order for the mouth to stay closed while the knot is being tied. Keep in place until mouth remains closed without a tie. The time varies on this, though it usually takes 1-2 hours. In some cases, it may be impossible to completely close the mouth in this way.
 
RIGOR MORTIS
Also known as stiffening of the joints and muscles — generally sets in within the first few hours, so having the body bathed and dressed soon after death is recommended. However, if rigor mortis has already set in by time bathing occurs (or if the body, prior to death was already stiff), all of the above is possible but may be slightly more challenging. In this situation, an option for dressing the deceased (if regular dressing proves to be too difficult) is to cut the garment(s) up the back and tuck the sides under the body. Sometimes massaging joints will help loosen them enough to make dressing easier.

Bathing & Dressing

The bathing of the deceased can be an elaborate ritual using essential oils, prayers, candles, music or whatever is desired or it can be a simple act using soap and water. It can take place on a bed or a table, indoors or outdoors. It is important to remember that once the bathing is complete the body will need to be carried to wherever it will be while laying in honor. If prior to death the person was bathed thoroughly, minimal bathing may be necessary.

BATHING AREA
If the bath occurs on a bed or table, cover the area with a plastic sheet or incontinence pads.
Items you need for bathing and dressing may include:
  • wash basin
  • gloves
  • towels, washcloths
  • soap
  • shampoo
  • hair dryer
  • fresh sheets and pillowcases
  • diapers/incontinence pads
  • essential oils
  • clothing/shroud/other covering
ESSENTIAL AREAS TO BE WASHED
Genital and rectal areas are washed well due to the fact that after a death has occurred the bladder and intestines relax and urine and feces can be excreted. Wash and dry these areas thoroughly. We recommend putting on an adult diaper after washing.
 
OPEN WOUNDS | Clean and bandage as in life.
 
SKIN FOLDS | Skin folds and creases where skin is touching skin; wash and dry well.

MOUTH HYGIENE | Thorough oral care should be done. This may need to be repeated at the end of the bath after the body has been turned back and forth several times.

Optional additions are: washing from head to toe (back, front and sides), shampooing hair, shaving face, providing nail care, or applying makeup. Once bathing is complete, clear area of wet items and replace with clean, dry sheets if staying in place.

Final Care Notes

CONDITION OF THE BODY
The appearance of the body may change slightly over time. Whether the vigil is 12 hours or 3 days, you will probably notice subtle changes, such as increased paleness, facial changes, and rigor mortis (as stated above). The amount of change largely depends on many factors, including: condition of the body prior to death, cause of death, whether or not the body was autopsied, and temperature of body and environment.
 
COOLING THE BODY
If keeping the body at home for less than 24 hours, turning on the air conditioner or opening windows to let cold air in may suffice. However, if the home funeral is to last for a number of days, other means may be necessary to keep the body cool in order to slow down the process of decomposition. Embalming is not required.

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Alternative Cooling Techniques

THE ADVANTAGES OF ALTERNATIVE COOLING TECHNIQUES:
by Lee Webster, based on contributions from Char Barrett of A Sacred Moment and Jerrigrace Lyons of Final Passages
Home funeral and green burial families are eager to care for their loved ones as naturally as possible. This necessitates shifting paradigms and practices that eschew the use of toxic chemicals. In the absence of embalming of any sort, cooling the body is of paramount importance.
 
Each state has different rules and regulations regarding method, time elapsed, whether dry ice is considered refrigeration and several other considerations, so it is vital that both the family and the funeral director know those parameters at the outset. The National Home Funeral Alliance (NHFA) and the Funeral Consumers Alliance (FCA) make a Quick Guide to Home Funerals by State available that includes information pertinent to cooling requirements throughout the U.S.
 
What is also important to be prepared for is the wait time and travel considerations if green burial is involved. Arriving at the venue with off-gassing dry ice might be equally distressing for the family as wet shrouds from poorly insulated or condensing gel packs. The following is a discussion of various acceptable cooling techniques that may need to be improvised upon, depending on the length of vigil, sheltering time, burial circumstances and logistics.
TECHNI-ICE OR OTHER POLYMER REFRIGERANTS
Polymer refrigerants are highly recommended by the NHFA for their long life, reusability, absence of off-gassing or condensation, size versatility, and relative ease of activating and using for family members. Once activated, the sheets stay effective up to 3-4 hours when used beneath and on top of a cooling body. As the body cools, the time of effectiveness lengthens until, in many cases, it is no longer required. Each sheet can be cut to fit the dimensions needed for the individual, beneath and on top of the torso, and switched out as necessary with little disturbance. Some prefer to encase the activated sheets in a pillowcase or ornamental cloth, or add the changing of the ice to the ritual process.
DRY ICE
In many parts of the country, dry ice is difficult to come by. It also requires special handling to avoid burning the skin of either the user or the deceased. Room ventilation is imperative to accommodate off-gassing for the safety of the living. The following are considerations and advice if dry ice is chosen as the primary cooling method.
How long is the family anticipating holding their home funeral vigil?
The biggest issue regarding the application of dry ice is whether families are decided or not about their plans for a home funeral vigil. They may slowly evolve to the idea of keeping the body at home after death, during which time the body may not be cooled. They may then decide at the eleventh-hour to keep the body for another two days, and then expect dry ice to miraculously cool the body and maintain the body’s current condition. By then, it’s typically too late. Nature has already begun her process, and this is when families may witness purging of the body. Cooling the body within the first four to six hours following death helps to achieve a much better outcome.

Having a solid answer to this question also helps determine how much dry ice is necessary throughout the home vigil. The body will absorb the most amount of cooling from the dry ice in the first day, since the initial temperature of the body (98.6°, or often higher due to infection/tumors/etc.) is so much higher than the cool temperature required (typically 47 or 48 degrees in most states) throughout the vigil. For this reason, dry ice may or may not be used on the second day. By the third day, it is often necessary to use more, depending on whether this is the departure day for the cemetery or crematory, or not.
How can freezing be avoided?
It’s a delicate balance, and an artful one at that, managing to keep a body cool with dry ice without freezing. If potential freezing is an issue, changing out smaller amounts on a regular basis will address the issue, but the family must understand the body will need to be disturbed (moved, rolled to one side, etc.) more frequently.
 
Using a 3-inch foam pad on top of a mattress or massage table, or whatever surface the family chooses, helps. The foam is soft and allows the 2-inch thick (generally 7-10 lbs.) dry ice blocks to sink down somewhat so that the body remains fairly even on the surface, though an extra small pillow is usually required for the head. It also helps to protect the mattress or massage table from the freezing temperature of the dry ice (or any form of ice that may be used).
 
The foam pad also serves to insulate the dry ice so that it lasts longer. To further insulate and separate the ice from the body, place it in paper bags and then sandwich it between two thick bed pads or draw sheets underneath the body. Towels could also be used. It may not be necessary to change the ice that is under the body again until the 3rd day.
 
The ice placed on top of the body can either be smaller chunks of dry ice or Techni-ice wrapped in paper bags and towels or pillow cases. Towels help absorb moisture caused by condensation. The ice on top is more exposed to the air and therefore will need to be changed more frequently. Dry ice on top usually needs to be changed once a day.
 
Let the family know that any parts of the body nearest the dry ice will most likely freeze that part of the body. If the family is open to the use of dry ice, it certainly helps to preserve the condition of the body along with stopping any purging. With any early signs of purging or seepage of any wounds or orifices, dry ice is highly recommended, but other forms of cooling may suffice, depending on the family’s preference.
Will the family have an issue with disturbing the body?
Many families choose to surround the body with elaborate sacred objects, flowers, altars, etc., and want the body minimally disturbed. In this case, the issue is a higher priority than monitoring the temperature of the body. The less dry ice you use to help avoid freezing the body, the more times you need to replace it throughout the vigil, thus disturbing the body.
 
Does the family have religious or spiritual objections, either to the use of dry ice or to not having the body touched at all?
Many traditional Buddhist families do not want the body touched at all, including bathing, yet understand the need to keep the body cool. Placing dry ice alongside the body, using sheets as draw cloths so as to be careful not to physically touch the body, is usually an effective compromise everyone can live with.
 
How will air temperature during the vigil influence what blankets will be used under or on top of the body?
A winter time vigil with a window slightly propped open will require less dry ice than a 90 degree summer day. Likewise, the insulating qualities of some blankets (100% wool, for example) may keep the cooling effect of the dry ice from reaching the body. Insulating the body with the right balance of blankets and “artfully applied” dry ice may keep freezing from occurring.
COOLING TOWELS & VESTS
Another effective method of quickly cooling the body is to use cooling vests and towels, though they require advance preparation and are somewhat awkward to move and replace. However, they do a great job in bringing the temperature down evenly and gradually without any detrimental side effects, and they hold the cold for longer periods of time than other methods. Pricing varies and we recommend looking for items that don’t use zippers or Velcro or other complicated means of holding it together. Some are as simple as an insulated, fleece-covered, vest-like frontal sheet, small enough to fit into the freezer but large enough to cover all the essential organs. This method is not conducive to use during transport.
 
OTHER METHODS
For families willing to go old-school, open windows in cool weather may be the way to go. Finding family members who can agree on the appropriate temperature of any room can be a challenge under any circumstances, so keeping the room below 65 degrees for an extended period of time may be especially so. Air conditioning is a great compromise and is more easily managed and reliable. And in an emergency, well-insulated gel packs when properly used for short periods will do in a pinch.

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